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D = S x T

How does connection work? How is it that two souls can feel each other without words, without touch, and even without being in each others’ presence,
and at other times, feel miles apart while having their fingers or tongues interlocked?

When it comes to decision making, my go-to method is always list-making.
Pros vs Cons.
Straightforward and effective all the time.
Well, most of the time; not really working now. But to be fair, it could be because I am subconsciously coming up with more Pros or Cons to reach the decision I know I sort of want in my head.
Decision that I lack the courage to confront, and too reluctant to leave it to logic, reasoning or rationale.
But I will never stop making lists, not until I am in the know.

Even list-making can’t save me now.

Is there some kind of formula that might be helpful for me now?
What is the formula for time and distance again? Does it apply to all kinds of distances?

This entry was posted in: Rambles


Peggy is an independent blogger from Singapore who has a penchant for impromptu travel plans and good caffe lattes. She is the co-owner of two little cafes, The Tiramisu Hero and Butter My Buns, and hopes to be able to see the world someday; one stop at a time.


  1. Myntea says

    Maybe you can stop making lists and just listen to your heart. Sometimes the heart knows what the mind doesn’t; sometimes it sees what the mind refuses to acknowledge. No decision is too weak. :]


  2. reminded me of a poem I just read
    “Change is (the only) constant” – Loh Guan Liang

    If speed equals distance over time,
    it follows that a life over time
    yields the net velocity of its being.
    Maybe we are running on the spot
    besides a scrolling background,
    looking up and whistling
    at the arc our ambitions make
    as they streak across the night,
    for how is it that we have gone so far
    and still gone nowhere at all?
    We offer formulae, lift our tongues
    to derivatives so we may prove
    capable of flight. Ignoring air resistance,
    we focus on falling in reverse
    towards the moon. Gravity reminds us
    of Earth and like runners
    we cross the line and complete
    the equation of our lives in time.


  3. taylor says

    “Maybe we don’t heal by convincing ourselves that someday, the pain will fade; that we’ll return to our former selves and reclaim the life we used to have. Maybe we heal when we accept that it’s okay to never go back; when we stop trying to use the broken pieces to rebuild the old picture, and instead, create a new one. Maybe we heal by affirming that even with this pain, we can craft a life that gives us meaning; that even when there are storms that flood our hearts, we can learn how to swim; that when night falls, we can learn how to create our own light. Maybe, it means trusting that no matter how many times we have to recreate ourselves and redirect our path, we will end up where we’re meant to be.”
    — Daniell Koepke


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