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Eu Yan Sang

I am excited about this post because I feel obliged to share what I have learnt from my visit to Eu Yan Sang recently!
I have always felt that I am a healthy and tough cookie,
but it was only weeks ago when I heard of a new term called “sub-health problems”.

Yes. I know you are scratching your head now thinking about what on earth sub-health problems are.
In layman’s term, sub-health is the state between health and actual illness.
For instance when you feel unwell, you’re always tired, you suffer from insomnia, stress,
irregular menstrual cycles etc, but the doctor cant find anything particularly wrong with you…
these may be symptoms of sub-health.
You can actually still live with and function with sub-health but if the symptoms are leave unattended,
they may gradually evolve into more serious medical conditions.

I know. Sounds very scary. Haha!

I shall lighten the mood a little with some pictures I took
at the Eu Yan Sang Premier TCM Centre at Camden Medical Centre,
which is just a stone’s throw away from Regent Hotel at Tanglin area.
I never knew Eu Yan Sang have a chain of clinics before this!

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For my first visit, I met up with Physician Zhou Yan and she did a regular check for me
to understand my body condition and health state better.
The simple check up was made up of her checking my pulse, some neck and shoulder assessment
(because I have neck pains)
and simple questions about my general health and well being.

It was my first visit to a Chinese physician and it was quite a refreshing experience for me.
Very different from the typical visits to our neighborhood GPs where
they would normally just do all the work with a stethoscope.

I had problems with perpetual neck aches and insomnia.
I always take a very long time to drift into sleep and because of my bruxism problem,
I often wake up feeling tired and have neck pains every single day.
I’m always bothered by indigestion whenever I have heavy meals or oily food too.
It’s pretty annoying because I can almost never get a good night’s rest.
No matter how long or how early I sleep, I still wake up tired with persistent neck aches.
It’s really annoying!

After my first visit, I was prescribed some medication.
I always had the impression that everything related to Chinese medicine is very old school and outdated.
But look at this, they are super high tech ok! Haha.

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Just like that, the satchets of medicine is ready!
No need for brewing of herbs, just mix with warm water and drink, super convenient!
Can even drink it as a beverage as I blog lor!

When I was just halfway through the 1-week course, I can feel that my neck was feeling more relaxed than before!
Apart from that, I fall asleep sooner at night, and I no longer have to read boring stuff in bed every night
trying to bore myself to sleep.
The neck aches in the morning did not go away right away, but the meds seem to have alleviated the problem.
I basically feel more refreshed in the mornings!
To be honest, I always had my reservations when it comes to traditional Chinese medicine (TCM)
because they always struck me as a very “slow recovery” way of treating ailments.
But mmm! I have to say I’m surprised!

The second visit to Eu Yan Sang was a little more exciting!
Because I tried ACUPUNCTURE!

It was my first time doing acupuncture and I was a little worried at first.
Luckily Physician Zhou Yan talked me through the process,
told me a little more about TCM and about how acupuncture can provide a more immediate relief to my sub-health problems!

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AND TIME FOR ACUPUNCTURE!
I know the idea of putting needles into our body is very scary and sounds painful, but it really isn’t that bad at all.
Look at the needles, they are all really fine!
(In fact they are so fine you cannot even see it. Haha!)

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I received needles on my head, face, and limbs.
The main purpose of the acupuncture treatment is to relax my body and take away the undesirable tension.
Physician Zhou gave me one needle on each side of my face to relax my jaw muscles too.
Hopefully, the acupuncture treatment can help me lessen the teeth grinding habits I have. 😦

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And here’s a retarded one. :p

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I’m feeling all perked up after the treatment! It’s really quite remarkable!
No pain at all, all I felt was a little bit of muscle ache feeling
that tingles only for like 5 seconds after the needles went in.

The entire treatment lasted only about 20 minutes, then I was left alone for half an hour to rest (with the needles on me).

Looks like it’s not as scary as I imagined it to be. :p

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Went to bid Goodbye to Physician Zhou before heading home.
She also gave me some information about TCM and sub-health problems to read when I’m back home.

Sub-health problems may not seem to bother us right now because we are all young and healthy
but they may cause more serious problems if we don’t take care of them while we can.
For instance, simple indigestion problem might lead to stomach ailments,
and since our organs are all related and depend on each other to function,
other organs in our body will eventually be affected to a certain extent as well.
Very often, sub-health problems usually affect working professionals,
and they most often arises from work stress, imbalance diets or improper lifestyle habits.

From what I learnt, sub-health problems can be easily reversed with Chinese medicine
and it works in a way where we improve and condition our body conditions instead of taking medicine to stop the problems.
So in a way, if coupled with good daily habits and care, it can be a permanent and lasting way to maintain good health!

Everyone only has one body! Better take good care of it!

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Feeling all recharged and perked up after my treatment and looking forward to my next visit!
If you are also facing problems like insomnia, frequent indigestion or fatigue problems like myself,
they may be signs of sub-health.
Take action now too!
It is hard to determine what the main problem is so the best way is to
get a professional physician to find out the root of the problem!

Alright, here are some fun facts about Eu Yan Sang! They are 10 years old this year!
And to celebrate their birthday this year, they have appointed non-profit voluntary welfare organization,
Thye Hua Kwan Moral Society as their beneficiary. Isn’t that really meaningful!

Thye Hua Kwan [link to http://www.thkms.org.sg%5D extends help to people of all races, culture and religion,
providing both institutional and community-based services.
Because of the collaboration, there will be a series of initiatives to help Thye Hua Kwan raise funds,
starting with donation boxes in the Eu Yan Sang clinics from 26 June until end of this year.
All donations will go to Thye Hua Kwan.
Eu Yan Sang Clinics has also pledged to donate an additional 10% of the total sum collected to THK.
Do your part and donate generously to help those in need too!

In July, do your part in helping out with Thye Hua Kwan and the earth,
go green and be in sync with Eu Yan Sang’s “Bring Your Own Bag” campaign.
The bags in their clinics used to contain medication are biodegradable which is already earth-friendly,
but less is more, so the lesser, the merrier. If patient request for bags,
they can still get one by putting $1 into the donation box for each bag used.
All proceeds will go towards Thye Hua Kwan! Let’s do our part!

As for me, I’ll be back with more updates about progress on my health and my experience with TCM!

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A and I spotted this cat around her neighborhood a week ago and the cat was really adorable.
It is a black and white cat and looks relatively healthy despite being a stray.
We fed the cat twice, and after some discussion, we were playing with the idea of whether we should bring the cat home.
So after a discussion, we decided to give it a try, perhaps adopt it or foster it to re-home the little fella.

So for the last couple nights, we have been touring her neighborhood in hopes of seeing the cat again.
Here are a couple pictures I snapped while we were out roaming at 3am last night.

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While we were roaming around (and meowing periodically), we chanced upon a couple other cats!
We also took the liberty of giving the cats names.

We decided to call this one Nancy Choo. I know that’s a freaking rubbish name for a cat.
Hahaha!
It looks very auntie with centre part fringe. :p

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This little fella has a high pitch meow and is one of the most suspicious one.
Good for him!
So he is called Jitters because he is so jumpy!
Very healthy and probably only a couple months old.

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This one never eats unless you’re at least 5 meters away.
Handsome boy.

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This one here looks quite old and likes to rub against our legs.
He is called “Old Rubba”. Hahaha!

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One that caught my attention is this poor little one who was super hungry!
Ate so much kibbles and canned food.

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And the little one we went out to look for is this round-faced cat.
Isn’t he beautiful?

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After feeding, I was there with the cat while A went back to her house to get a carrier.
The cat was really obedient and followed us, meowing all the way.
While A was away, I stroked the cat and it scratched me. 😦

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So I left it alone for a while, then it started to come and rub against my legs again.
After A came back, I told her about the scratching and she said the cat is apologizing already with all the rubbing.
So I stroked it again.
Once, ok.
Twice, ok.
At the third time, it grabbed my right hand and bite and scratch again.

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Then it walked away quietly.
It’s so hard to understand cats sometimes.
But I guess what A said is true, they are strays and I guess it’s a good thing for them not to be too trustworthy.

Yes we still love the little fella & we will continue to feed him and his friends.
And no we didn’t bring it home.

We are so lucky to have the three healthy and friendly cats at home.

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SIXPEGS GIVEAWAY!

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When we were younger, June is always one of the better months because of the holidays.
Now that we have all grown up, we no longer have long school holidays.
But here is something to perk you up this June!

In this special Online Store Giveaway Entry, you will find 30 items all up for grabs!
To win the items, simply leave a comment and indicate which item you’re interested in winning.
You can list up to 3 items that you’re interested in.
Do remember to leave your email address because winners will be notified via emails.
I try to be as fair as I can, but I cannot promise I will not favour SIXPEGS Facebook Page members! :p
Do join me at my Facebook Page for more updates that you can’t find on the blog.

Let’s check out what the online stores have in store for us and bring some of these items home while browsing!
HAVE FUN!

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ChippyChipDovey is the first online store to be featured.
This store specializes in hand made accessories that look clean and exquisite.

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Classic pearl and 925 silver chain will match many different apparels.
Check out this link for more info about the materials used and view more photos.
Quote “CHIPPYCHIPDOVEY PEARL” to win.

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When it comes to accessories, less is always more.
Visit here to find out more and view more pictures of this lovely turquoise nugget stone necklace!
Quote “CHIPPYCHIPDOVEY TURQUOISE” to win.

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Monoduno is definitely in tune with what’s in fashion now.
Looking for dresses with galaxy prints, floral shorts or metal studded shirts? Look this way!

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Stand a chance to walk away with this gorgeous floral bustier at this Giveaway!
Check out more pictures and measurements at this direct link.
Quote “MONODUNO BUSTIER” to win.

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This mini dress is also another item that I absolutely adore!
It’s made of great material and I love the little details on the leather collar.
Check out this direct link for more measurement details and pictures!
This mini dress is also available in black as well, check it out if you like it.
Or if you wanna win this, quote “MONODUNO DRESS” in the comments field.

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Wanna be the girl-next-door?
Then Hope Alethia is definitely your first choice when it comes to online shopping!
Packed with sundresses, tops and many other items loved by many local bloggers, this one is not to be missed.

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Stand a chance to win this gorgeous brown linen sundress from Hope Alethia here!
Visit Hope Alethia for measurement details and more pictures.
Quote “HOPE ALETHIA BROWN SUNDRESS” to win!

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I personally love this grey linen sundress! Pair it up with a sharp looking blazer and it’s good for office too!
Quote “HOPE ALETHIA GREY SUNDRESS” to win this item!

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DLLW Online Store is all about simple basics that we need everyday.
If you like to mix and match the items in your wardrobe, head on here to pick up more pieces for your closet!
They have a huge array of items for you to choose from – dresses, blazers, top, bottoms and more.

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This black and white top has a very unique design and is totally flattering too!
More measurement details and pictures can be found here.
Quote “DLLW TOP” to win this item!

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This pantsuit is one of the most romantic looking ones I’ve seen around.
It’s comfortable and oh-so-pretty to be in!
It also comes in black and prints.
Check out this direct link for more pictures.
Quote “DLLW PANTSUIT” to bring this item home!

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This is another one of my favourite online store!
They have a great selection of apparels, fantastic customer services and products are of superb quality.
Here are the two items you can bring home from By Champagne Life for today’s Giveaway.

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This cape blouse is really comfortable to be in and the cut is so awesome!
You can find more details about this item here to see if it suits you.
Quote “BYCHAMPAGNELIFE CRIMSON” to win this item.

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Also check out this unique looking cape jacket from this online store.
I am so amazed by how this jacket can instantly complete my look!
Here are more pictures of this item, do check it out!
Quote “BYCHAMPAGNELIFE CAPE” to walk away with this item!

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This outfit is entirely from The Closet Lover.
Look at how the items at this online store is so versatile and easy to match!
Closet Lover is currently at their 126th Collection so you can imagine the amount of gorgeous apparels they have.
A huge huge array of apparels for you to choose from.

For this Giveaway, quote “THECLOSETLOVER TOP” for the blouse
or “THECLOSETLOVER BOTTOM” for the shorts (with belt).
And please visit their main site for other gorgeous designs!
This two items will also be launched in their latest collection tomorrow!
Be the first to grab these items even before they are available! You are gonna love this online store!

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The next online store is definitely up my alley!

Flaunt has so many apparels on their site that you just shouldn’t miss!
The quality of the apparels are so good and I am loving this two items that I’m giving away so much,
I wish I could keep them for myself!
Lucky you!

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Check out this cheery looking dress with cute prints of birdies.
Dress it up with some accessories and cute heels and I’m sure it can brighten up even the bluest Mondays!
Quote “FLAUNT DRESS” to stand a chance to win this item.

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If you are looking for a blouse instead, check out this blouse with the similar prints!
I love this blouse with shorts and cute leather wedges!
The material is so light and soft!
Quote “FLAUNT BLOUSE” to walk away with this item.
Flaunt is currently having a mega sale, visit here to check out more items!

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This next online store is all about cute accessories and other gadgets we all love.
More covers for your dear cellphone, pouches, or other cute trinkets for you?
Summur Serendipity is the place to go to!

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Make your travels a little more colourful with this cute passport cover from Summur Serendipity!
Quote “SUMMUR PASSPORT COVER” if you want to bring this item home!

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Blue on the outside, pink on the inside.
This is the perfect purse for ladies during lunch times!
It’s spacious enough for cards and coins, and it even comes with a strap so you can use it as a wristlet.
Quote “SUMMUR WRISTLET” if you like this item!

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Kestano is another online store I return to again and again.
I love the choice of items and style this store stands by!

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This outfit is put together by Kestano.
Love the shirt with the metal tips and bright orange shorts!
Check out this direct link for measurements of the black shirt,
and quote “KESTANO TOP” if you’re interested in this item.
If you want to bring the shorts home, quote “KESTANO SHORTS” instead!
Here is also a link to their latest collection!

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This next online store is another one of my favourite!
TresLoveChic always brings us the biggest and best collections,
I like the fashion style of the apparels here and I’m so loving this two pieces we are giving away today!

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This chiffon top is going to serve you well! It looks good with shorts or even working pants.
Tuck it in or leave it out to achieve different looks!
Check out this link for more colours and measurement details.
Quote “TRESLOVECHIC TOP” to win this item.

The polka dot skirt is actually not a skirt!
You can get the best of both worlds with this item because this pair of shorts looks like a pair of flowy skirt.
Extremely flattering cut too!
View more pictures and measurement of this skater skirt here.
Quote “TRESLOVECHIC BOTTOM” to win this item!

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Volupza is my favourite store when I’m shopping for lingerie and beach wear!
The designs are unique and different from what we find in regular stores in malls.
For this special giveaway, stand a chance to win this two items!

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This flowy chiffon maxi dress is so comfortable to be in!
It’s lightweight and suitable not only for the beach but also for our favourite Sunday brunches!
Check out this link for more pictures and measurements.
Quote “VOLUPZA DRESS” to win this item!

Or if you’re looking for a new bikini set, check out this bikini seat in emerald green!
Green and gold makes such a perfect match!

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Check out more pictures of this bikini set and pictures of the bikini’s bottom here.
To win this item, simply quote “VOLUPZA BIKINI” in the comments field!

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Chichi Entourage is another one of my online store to visit whenever I’m shopping online.
The collections here are chic and sophisticated, service is excellent and delivery is always prompt!
Don’t we always can’t wait to lay our hands on our buys when we buy stuff online? Heh!

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This skirt is one of the apparels at Chichi Entourage that caught my eye!
I love the material and how it flows when I wear it.
If you’re creative enough, it can also be worn as a dress with a belt!
Check out more pictures and measurements of the skirt here.
And quote “CHICHI SKIRT” to win this item!

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This blouson is so comfortable to be in.
I love the prints of little bows and the colour is versatile so feel free to match it with pants, skirt or even shorts!
You can view more pictures here and see if you want to bring this item home!
Quote “CHICHI TOP” to win this item!

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Waffle Suitcase not only has a cute name but also lots of adorable apparels to boot!
Whether you’re the girl-next-door or the strong and independent working woman, this place will have something for you.
For today’s giveaway, don’t miss this shop if you like this two items:

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This one-piece really makes me feel young again!
I love the prints and colour of this piece and it just makes everyday feel like a Sunday when I’m in this outfit.
Quote “WAFFLE DRESS” to bring this item home!

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This purple chiffon top is also oh-so-versatile.
I think it will look great with a pair of sharp pencil skirt and it will immediately transform into a corporate wear.
Or if you want to play it down, then pair it with a pair of shorts like what I did!
Quote “WAFFLE TOP” to win this item.

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Pret-A-Tote is the new online bags store to watch!
Whether it’s clutches, totes or other arm candies, they have a huge variety of products here to steal your breath away.
For today’s giveaway, see if you would like to bring any of these arm candies home!

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This clutch makes you look like a tough cookie instantly!
It’s spacious and still looks very compact, great for dinners or just for a night out with girlfriends.
Quote “PRETATOTE CLUTCH” to win this item!

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I am also loving this vintage looking red handbag.
Vintage is all the rage now and this handbag is going to complete any vintage or girly look.
Dress it up with your favourite scarf or bag charms, this is going to be a gorgeous gem!
Quote “PRETATOTE HANDBAG” to bring this item home!

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The last store featured in today’s Giveaway has some of the my favourite items!
Static Fumes has been in the industry for quite a while,
and they never fail to give me pleasant surprises with every one of their collections!

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Win this Aztec print cropped tee by quoting “STATIC FUMES CROPPED” in the comments field.
Alternatively, if what caught your eye is this printed top made with great materials,
quote “STATIC FUMES PRINTS” instead.

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I hope you like the 30 items from 15 different online stores today!
Remember to just leave a comment and list the items (up to 3) that you’re interested in winning!
Do double check the email address you leave behind too because that’s how I will be contacting you for further details.

LIKE this post or give it a heart to let me know if you like Giveaway posts too!
Lots of love from me and all 15 participating online stores!

Till next time!
PEACE xx

Set Yourself on Fire

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WHEN THERE’S NOTHING LEFT TO BURN, YOU HAVE TO SET YOURSELF ON FIRE.

I’m here today to introduce this amazing album from Stars that I’m hopelessly addicted to.
The first song I heard from this album is the track called Calendar Girl.
After hearing that this Indie band has many other songs that is worth a listen,
I checked out their third album named “Set Yourself On Fire” and I was blown away!

The songs in the album is all about love and life.
Pretty much brings us through the different stages of life and of a relationship.
Here are some of the songs that I particularly love.

“Your Ex-Lover is Dead” is about meeting an ex-lover again after a long time.
I like how they described every emotion through small details.
Here are the lyrics to the song:

God, that was strange to see you again
Introduced by a friend of a friend
Smiled and said, “Yes, I think we’ve met before”
In that instant it started to pour

Captured a taxi despite all the rain
We drove in silence across Pont Champlain
And all of that time you thought I was sad
I was trying to remember your name

This scar is a fleck on my porcelain skin
You tried to reach deep but you couldn’t got in
And now you’re outside me, you see all the beauty
Repent all your sin

It’s nothing but time and a face that you’ll lose
I chose to feel it and you couldn’t choose
I’ll write you a postcard, I’ll send you the news
From the house down the road from real love

Live through this and you won’t look back
Live through this and you won’t look back
Live through this and you won’t look back

There’s one thing I have to say so I’ll be brave
You were what I wanted
I gave what I gave
I’m not sorry I met you
I’m not sorry it’s over
I’m not sorry there’s nothing to save
I’m not sorry there’s nothing to save

“The Big Fight” is another song that caught my attention with its addictive melody and intriguing lyrics.
It’s a duet between the two parties in the relationship, both torn about their breakup.
It reflects a lot on the real-life situations many of us are, or were once in.
Breakup with strings attached.
It’s always hard to get over the issues that causes the relationship to crumple.

“One More Night” is about break up sex.
She loves and hates him.
Is she really making love because of love or because of the memories they once shared?
How does one make love knowing it will be the last time?
I took the liberty of doing a cover of this beautiful song.
Haunting and so raw. I love this song.

“Calendar Girl” is the song that led me to the band.
This song is all about surviving everything life puts one through and finding oneself.
I did a cover for this too! Hope you like it.

Before you die from bleeding ears, here is “Your Ex-Lover Is Dead” by Stars.
TGIF and have a great weekend ahead!

Peace xx

Life Gets Better Tomorrow

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Tonight, I felt inclined to share my thoughts and feelings about my personal life.

Some people might call me brave.
Some people might call me stupid; because hereforth, I will be labelled as different.
When my friends mention me to their friends, I would probably be described as “gay”.
Some might think that I am just juvenile and confused, not knowing what I want at the age of 27.
There would also be some people, like many of you, who would think that being different is not a big deal.
Because we are all free to love who we are, and gender does not matter.

If you are one of few, thank you.

Someone once told me that straight people are just lucky because they belong to the majority.
Putting aside who is in the majority and who is not,
have you ever thought about why most of us think that being straight is normal while being gay is not?
Who decides what is normal and what is not?
The society?

The society and our education taught us to compartmentalize and differentiate things.
And our upbringing instills various sets of beliefs in us.
Why must all the baby girls wear pink? And boys blue?
Who decided that pink is a feminine colour?
Why are boys supposed to like cars and girls should play with dolls?
Why is it normal for girls to wear makeup and abnormal when guys want to have their nails painted?

Wouldn’t it be nice if we could forget all about the societal rules and standards for a while?

Being in love is a feeling.
There is no right or wrong feeling.
Like how you hate eating capsicums – there is nothing right or wrong about it.
The same goes for love.
Because love IS love.
We cannot judge someone for hating something we love
Neither can we judge them because they love something we hate.

Peel away the layers of pre-concieved notions about what is right and what is not,
we are all human beings – born to have feelings for people and things.
We are all different and we are all free to love.

“Coming out” to the LGBT people means disclosing their sexual orientation or gender identity.
I once read an article saying that it should not be called “coming out”, but “coming home” instead.
That is so very true.

Knowing and coming to terms with who you are is such a brave and honest thing a person can do.
At the end of the day, one should be rejoicing with the fact that one has finally found oneself,
and not worry about how one needs to face the world from then on.
Afterall, who knows for sure how or what one’s future would be like from Day One?

For me, I did not come out of the closet at all – because I was never in one.
It was the unconditional love and support from my family and friends who gave me the courage to be myself.
I never felt that there was a reason to hide because being able to love is such a wonderful gift.
Because of love, we were created.
Because of love, our parents did not give up on us even when we were not the child they envisioned us to be.
Because of love, we accept our partners even though they were not even close to the person we have in mind
when we were writing down our “My Dream Lover” criteria.
Because of love, we could never allow ourselves to be mad at our dog for too long after they just peed on the door mat.
And because love is such a powerful and natural thing for every human being,
how could anybody bring themselves to despise or ostracize another person because of who or what they love?

Yes. There were, and will always be people who are not too happy with where myself,
and millions of other LGBT people are now.
But it does not matter because someday, they will grow to understand that we are all humans and we love the same way.
And hopefully, that someday will not take too long to come.

I am sure every single person reading this has heard of or personally knows someone who is a LGBT.
Let them know that you are proud to be in their lives, and let them know that you support the freedom to love too.


Pink Dot 2012 will be happening at the end of this month and I can’t wait to be part of this event.
And I want to be there because I support the Freedom to Love.
One day, someday, there would be no person too fearful to disclose his or her sexual orientation.
Someday, we will all be equal –
regardless of gender, regardless of race, culture or social status.

Come have a night picnic at the Pink Dot and feel the love if you are free too!

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Let us show Singapore that we support the freedom to love,
and there is no need for anyone to hide because we are all the same.
Peace xx

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The Naked Bulb
She Loves Her
A

Theone & Ulva

It was a happy Thursday for Ulva and Theone because they get to go to the beach!
A’s brothers, Max and Shawn came along as well and the 4 of us brought the two girls to Sentosa for some fun in the sun.
It has been a while since I went to the beach and it was really nice, especially with the company of the furkids!

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“WE ARE HERE!!!”

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We headed over Tanjong Beach Club!
Always preferred this area to the more crowded Siloso area.
The people at this place were really friendly too!
And as usual, the girls are chick magnets again, attracting lots of girls to come by.
HAHAHA!
See!

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Say HI to Shawn, A’s youngest brother.

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I’m wearing my new bikini top!
Will be giving away a set of this bikini in an upcoming Giveaway post! Stay tune! :p

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The girls!

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We were trying to get the girls into the water because they have never had a proper swim before.
And I really like to see doggies swim because they look so cute!
It is much harder trying to handle Ulva and Theone because they are so much bigger!
I remember I only have to carry Maliboo into the water when I bring Boo to the beach.
But for this two girls, it’s hard to drag them down! Hahaha.

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We decided to carry them in instead! Heh!
Theone is about 17kg and Ulva is at a whooping 36kg!
That’s damn scary heavy! Hahaha.

This is A with Theone 🙂

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I don’t know whether this is Theone’s saliva or is it seawater, but it’s a damn funny photo!
Look at her expression! Haha!

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A is teaching Max how to carry the big girls!

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Theone looks like she got flared nostrils in this photo. Freaking funny! :p

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None of us can carry the 36kg Ulva except Max!
😡
Ulva is huge!

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We also chilled over beer and some finger food.
It was nice hanging out with A and her brothers! 🙂

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It was a really hot day so we cooled the dogs with some funky ice cubes spa treatment.
Heh!

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It was a really tiring day and everyone was totally thrashed after an afternoon of play.

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The ride home was exceptionally quiet too. Hahaha!
The girls were sleeping most of the way home. And Shawn “meditated” all the way back too. :p

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Will be back with more updates!
Hope you like the pictures of the girls swimming and playing in the sun!

Peace xx

Dove

No time for hair treatments in salons?
Lie in bed every night worrying about your hair fall problem?
Or frown at that receding hairline every time you pull your hair back?
If you caught yourself nodding, then you’re not alone.

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Most people think hair fall problems only occur among ladies with longer hair,
but that is in no way true!
Although females sporting a short crop do not comb their hair as often as those with long hair,
the amount of styling products used by the former pose as potential threats to damaging otherwise healthy hair.
Coupled with damages from the environment and other factors like over-exposure in the sun,
excessive use of the hairdryer, hair fall is definitely a problem all women share.

I am excited to write about this new range of products from Dove today because it has blew me away completely!
I have been a regular customer of Dove products,
but the usual things I buy off the shelves are just the usual shampoo and conditioner.
Chancing upon this new Hair Fall Rescue range really came as a pleasant surprise!

I used to think premature hair fall will never happen to me just because I have short hair.
Being complacent, I did all sorts of stuff to my hair…

Changing the color of my hair every couple months.

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Perms.

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Used crazy amounts of hair products.

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As you can see from this picture, my hairline has suffered and the left side of the hairline
is significantly higher than the right.

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It is kind of embarrassing to admit this but I have actually succumbed to using “old man shampoo”.
I call them “old man shampoo” because everything from the packaging to the herb-y smell of the products
makes me feel 30 years older!

Thank God for Dove because the new Dove Hair Therapy Hair Fall Rescue range not only looks young and modern,
it smells good, and also works like magic!

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I used to be skeptical about how TVCs show how the before/after can be really drastic after using a particular product,
I know it sounds ridiculous for me to say this now but after using this ENTIRE range of products,
they really work like magic!

Other than shampoo and conditioners, they also have three other products that are really interesting.
(Yes caring for you hair goes beyond washing them with shampoo and conditioner every day!)
I love the treatment mask for my hair because of the intensity of the product,
and my hair really feels super soft after each use.
The texture of the treatment mask is quite viscous so it stays on the hair easily, non drip!
That’s me with treatment mask on. Looks kinda cool right? Hahaha.

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Other than the mask and a serum, there is another product I absolutely love – Intensive Hair Tonic!

It comes in little tubes for easy application, so every one time, you just need to put on one tube on the scalp.
I know you might feel something so amazing must be very hard to use! But it’s really simple!
Just part your hair and apply the tonic on the scalp and massage in.
Slowly part the hair at various parts and make sure you cover all areas of the scalp.

Easy peasy!

I never knew how majority of hair fall occurs when the entire hair fall off, and not via breakages.
So what the tonic does is to get to the root of the problem (what a good pun, I’m genius)
and nourish and care for the root instead.
They promised that the Roots Tonic can prevent hair fall in 2 weeks and they did not disappoint at all!

If I’m not wrong, Dove is actually the first beauty brand in the market to tackle hair fall from the roots!

One star ingredient in this entire range is also the amazing Trichazole Actives,
which essentially works against natural enzymes from breaking down the follicle glue.
So, with trichazole actives, it would be “BYE BYE HAIR FALL!”

But that said, I think the most important thing when it comes to caring for our hair is to treat it with more care,
and not be lazy when trying out new products.
I remember how I always use new products I bought for 3 days before chucking it away to the back of my cupboards.
I am glad I used my Dove religiously this time round!
Never felt my hair so soft before lor!

By the way, this is how the various products look like:

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Dove is giving away free Intensive Hair Tonic starter kit worth S$6 (YES! That is the STAR product!)
at the Share A Secret website now!
This is the one main product I encourage anyone who is also battling against hair fall to also try out!

If you would like to inspire others, then you might also want to share your hair fall stories on the website.
The most inspiring stories will be given a full set of Dove Hair Fall Rescue Treatment series
and also be invited to a Share the Secret event with me and many other bloggers.
On top of that, you might also stand the chance to be featured in a Dove testimonial video and appear in magazines!

For a start, here is my very own Hair Fall story!

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Aglio Olio Recipe

A and I has been experimenting with our Aglio Olio recipe for the last couple months.
We tried a few times and I think we have finally perfected our very own Aglio Olio!
And since we are not selfish people and we love to share, here is the recipe for you to try too!

I called it Aileen’s recipe because she invented it! Hahaha.

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Other than the usual tomato or cream-base pasta, this is another one of the few common pasta we find in cafes.
This is also my favourite pasta of all time because it’s a healthier choice and it’s so tasty!
But like what many says, the simpler the dish, the harder it is to perfect it.
It is such a simple pasta traditionally made with just olive oil and garlic,
but there are still so many restaurants out there which would screw it up.
This is our rendition of Aglio Olio and I hope you will enjoy it as much as us!

Here are some of the ingredients you need.

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Other than the usual garlic and olive oil, we also used thyme, pepper, chilli padi and chicken stock cubes.
We also used angel hair pasta because we think it tasted best prepared Aglio Olio style.

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Chop garlic into thin slices.
It would be great if you could slice them into even thickness so that the frying would be easier,
and you won’t get occasional burnt pieces.

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Simultaneously, you can also prepare the pasta.
Boil them in a pot of water with a cube of chicken stock.
You can also use salt if you prefer.
Cook it to Al Dante – for spaghetti, you can check by looking at the tip of the pasta.
There should be a little white (uncooked) dot in the middle of the spaghetti.
As for angel hair, the pasta is a little too thin so we need to cook “by feel”. Heh!

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Oil the pan with some olive oil.
Do control the heat so that the oil is not sizzling.
Throw in the garlic and stir fry them until they are slightly softer.
Be sure not to fry them until they are too brown if not they will start to taste bitter.

Throw in a cube of chicken stock and fry them together.

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Throw in the chilli padi and continue stirring.
You can also put in a tablespoonful or two of the water you used to boil the pasta to give it a velvety finish.

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Throw in the prawns and continue stirring.
We used frozen cooked prawns so it’s easier for us.
If you are using raw prawns, you will have to boil the prawns for a while before frying the prawns.

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Pour olive oil into the pan generously when the frying it almost done.
Stir well and make sure the chicken stock cube is well dissolved.
Also throw in the thyme and pepper to taste.

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TIME TO SERVE!

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We added a little ebiko onto the top of the pasta to add a bit of color!
The ebiko adds a nice crunch to every mouthful of the noodles too.
TASTY!

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Hope you like our little recipe.

It’s healthy and so easy to make!

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Choupinette

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It has been some time since I had a decent brunch at a nice cafe.
And seeing all the pictures of Eggs Benedicts and Eggs Florentines on my Instagram,
I’m itching for one too!

After doing some research online, A and I decided to drop by Choupinette.
A told me her last time there was a whooping 7 years ago!
SEVEN YEARS!
She was only 18 years old back then, so high class leh.
I think I eat brunches in food courts when I’m 18 years old! Heh.

We chatted with the servers and found out that Choupinette has already been around for a decade!
It’s a nice little place – not too many seats and I can imagine it being packed to the brim on Sunday mornings.
I mean, it was around 1pm on Wednesday afternoon and it was already quite crowded in there.
Note to self: Remember to make reservations in advance on weekends!

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We got a seat near the windows, I always liked seats with a lot of daylight.
The decor is pretty simple – European with a Singaporean twist.
I like that funky lights at the ceiling though! :p

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They also sell breads at the side of the cafe.
Many different kinds of bread!
I didn’t buy any back to try because I was heading elsewhere after brunch, but the breads look very fresh!

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Somehow the look and feel of the menu doesn’t really sit complement the other aspects of the cafe. 😡

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Aileen ordered an Eggs Florentine (poached egg with spinach)
Trust me, she has been thinking about Eggs Florentine for days!
As for me, I just had to choose the Eggs Royal (poached egg with smoked salmon) because I love salmon!
They have set meals with the eggs items and each set comes with
a glass of fruit juice (of your choice) and coffee, tea or hot chocolate.
The price for each set ranges from about $18 to $21, if I remember correctly.
Pretty value for money considering the beverages they throw in.

We also ordered a soup of the day at $9.
We got carrots soup for today, comes with hot bread and butter too!

And this is how A looks like when she is waiting for her food. Heh!
*fantacizing about her Eggs Florentine*

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The silly girl was so excited about her food!
This is the face with REAL happiness oozing. Hahaha.

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Check out her beautiful Eggs Florentine and hot chocolate!

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I really much preferred my Eggs Royal though.
We were discussing about our food and we decided that if there was a combination of Florentine and Royal,
it would be perfect.
We would call it Eggs Tranny – because Florentine is female and Royal sounds like a dude.
Hahaha!

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IT IS YUMMY!

They used a baguette (if I’m not wrong) instead of an English muffin
but it was still very good because the bread was really fresh!
The eggs were not too sour (they normally poach eggs in water and vinegar)
but the egg yolk is a little too cooked for my liking.
Wish it was a little runnier!
On the whole, still very awesome!
The Hollandaise sauce was quite nice too by the way. :p

They also serve wine and champagne and stuff, so it’s a nice place to chill and hang out with friends.
Servers are really friendly too!
Only worry is that it could be a little too crowded during the weekends.

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*My goodness my hair is so messy. I need a haircut!*
The bill came up to about $50 plus.
We stepped out of Choupinette happy and VERY full! Heh.

If you are interested in getting your brunch there too, here are some details about the cafe.
They serve the breakfast sets until 5pm.

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I know this is pretty random but I wanna share this really pretty pantsuit I got!
Hahaha. The material is so soft I wanna wear it everyday!

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Will be back tomorrow to share my favourite Aglio Olio recipe!
Thanks for dropping by and take care meanwhile.

Peace xx

My Grandparents

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I visited my uncle’s place last weekend and came across a photo album with all the old photos.
The first time I laid eyes on these photos, I froze.
Because I see my Grandma came back to life again.
She was young. And very beautiful.

Amongst all the discussions with my uncles and aunties about how my Grandma was only 19 when this photo was taken,
and about how much my Mom really looks like my Grandma,
a frightful thought dawned upon me –
my Grandma was once like me, young and free, thinking she would be young forever.

I don’t know whether I will bore you to tears with this post.
For me, I enjoyed listening to stories about the older generations.
My uncles and aunts told me they used to wake up in the morning with bleeding toes because they were bitten by mice
They also told me about how my Mom was rebellious enough
to steal her passport and go Japan for half a year with her then-boyfriend.
One that left the deepest impression on me is the one about
my Mom’s then-boyfriend committing suicide after he was, allegedly, possessed.
My Mom told me he started putting on nail polish and stuff, dressed differently,
and it ended when he jumped off the kitchen window in his flat.
It really freaked me out.
And I cannot imagine it happening to someone close to me, it must have been hard for my Mom back then.

Well, moving on, I’m not writing this entry to tell you guys some of the boring stories my uncles and aunts shared.
It is just something I want to put in my blog as part of my story – something to remember.

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My grandparents, like many of your grandparents, met in an arranged marriage.
They did not have the chance to date before the wedding day, in fact they did not even know each other.
And it amazes me how can anybody marry someone they do not know.

My grandparents remained strong in their marriage all their lives until they passed.
What amazes me more is how this two people can stick to each other through thick and thin,
and brave all storms together after marriage.
When that thought came into my head, I pondered.
And I thought about how volatile marriages and relationships are now compared to the marriages made a few decades ago.
When they face problems in the past, they deal with it together and they can conquer anything.
But these days, when we run into problems, we just tell ourselves that this person is probably not The One.
And then, we give up.

This fleeting thought was more than any random realization, it was a lesson learnt.
I guess this is one of the few aspects where we should remain old fashion.
Marriage and companionship is so precious.
What are the chances of finding someone who would love you the way you love him/her?
Whenever we run into problems, go right into the problem and conquer it.
Not run away from it.
Our grandparents did it, their parents did it.
And why envy other old couples who stick to each other throughout their lives when we can also make that happen for ourselves?
If we don’t learn how to deal with problems, even a relationship with The One would end up in ruins.

It has been more than 6 months since Grandma left us.
And there is not one day which I will not think of her –
there would always be some thing or some scene that would remind me of her.
I am thankful that she can still teach me this precious lesson even though she is no longer around.

I wish I knew my Grandpa better.

That aside, I want to say that I really love the gown my Grandma is wearing!
Isn’t it gorgeous?
I love the sleeves with the flower details.

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I dug out a couple pictures of my Mom when she was young.
My Mom really looks like Grandma!

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Thanks for the valuable lesson, Ah Ma.
May you be at peace, wherever you are.
Love you.